it is what it has become

dear me,

sometimes, even though it's not a happy one, you have to accept closure; an ending. and that is something you should not see as a means of giving up. you can't. well you shan't. you'll never be resolved, and you can't see it as unfinished, or you won't heal. I think you have to accept that while it's that it's not what you thought it would be, it became what it become, and took you with it. 

just wallow in it, learn, and then make forward motion.

No Easy Way -Digital Daggers

Love Is A Laserquest -Arctic Monkeys

Heart Is A Beating Drum -The Kills

We're OK -The Rescues